I won't suggest a brand, but discovering silicone lube a few years ago was an epiphany - anal sex stopped being a 'meh' and started being a 'yay!' for her... she really enjoys it now. Read more

I'm surprised the article didn't mention butt plugs. For people trying anal for the first time, using a butt plug first can make everything so much easier and comfortable. It allows the the person to experience the sensation of having something in the backdoor, and helps relax the muscles for when it's time to do the… Read more

I've only had one girlfriend (out of 5 serious ones) who was really into it. It was awesome. I think the prep work that needs to be done, both by the fucker and the fuckee, can't be stressed enough. In my experience, it was never a spur of the moment thing like when a porn star just says, "I want you to fuck my ass,"… Read more

I like how half this post is still dedicated to cleanliness. You can take the poop-smeared wang out of the Clean Person, but you can't take the Clean Person out of the poop-smeared wang. (Or something.) Read more

"Broaching The Subject" Read more

Omigod my shoes are the header of a Jezzie post! That is my foot!

Great suggestion. I'd take it a step farther and say any metal grating you have (grill or oven)–place it in a large plastic bag with vinegar and overnight most of the carbonized junk should have fallen off or greatly loosened. Read more

So I kind of and did this very thing a few months back re-heating some winter stew I had made in a Le Creuset dutch oven no less. My fire alarm did go off.. but I didn't actually wake up until my wife woke me. She was none too happy q) about the danger factor and b) about me ruining said dutch oven. Read more

Discovering the wonders of white vinegar is a milestone in adult-able-to-handle-their-own-shit evolution. Read more

One trick that I see used on airplane bathrooms is to have a bag of coffee grounds as well. They work to absorb the odors in the air. It definitely seems to help. Read more

I have become a white vinegar convert. It does work for just about anything. I keep a spray bottle of diluted vinegar around and spray it on anything that needs to be cleaned up. I even gussied up a bottle with lemon peel and rosemary for extra panache. Haters gonna hate, but they should try it out. Read more

just wanted to say that I've only read through about a 10th of the stories and you all rock. I want to go to a Jezzie wedding. Why does everyone I know think white satin (aka shoes they would NEVER wear IRL) are the only way to go? Read more

I'm taller than my husband in heels so those wouldn't work. Also I can't wear heels for more than 10 minutes without wanting to die...so sparkly black flats FTW!

Wore these bad boys for the ceremony / photos, then kicked them off for some running shoes.

I wore shoes I'd had for about 15 years, because I couldn't find anything like them in stores/online during wedding prep. They're slip-on casual canvas shoes with a white eyelet lace overlay (like these Keds, but without laces or seams). Comfortable, flat, matched my dress, free. The end.

I went with my Grandma's navy blue snake skin pattern slingbacks. (I'm pretty sure they are pressed leather). I was going for a vintage vibe.

Wore my Wonder Woman heels for the ceremony, and then glitter Tardis flats for the reception!